Reclaiming Yourself Now

After Narcissistic Abuse!

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You want to know that you matter,
that you are lovable, 
that it's safe to open your heart, and that it's Ok to TRUST again!

At the moment...

You feel a though your life imploded and that you're still living the aftermath.

You may feel exhausted due to 2:00a.m. brain chatter, 
ruminating on Whys? and What-Ifs? 
You may mistrust your judgement. 
Perhaps, you worry that you will lose your sh*t in public—or even at work.
It seems as if you use all your energy just keeping it together.
You may feel as though someone has robbed you of your happiness,
along with your dreams and peace of mind.
To top it all, your family and friends may be telling you to Just Get Over It!



I was once where you are now!

After 30-years my marriage ended. My world imploded. 
In short, The Ex found that he couldn't resist 
the adrenaline rush of dating other women. 
YES! You read that correctly.
From that point forward I experienced a cruelty that I'd never known before.
The accusations! The projections! The threats!
I finally walked away with little more than I started with—despite my
having been instrumental in supporting him and his success.
  Before long I came to understand that I'd been married to a Vulnerable "covert" Narcissist
The information I discovered was scary...but, accurate. 
Namely, I suffered from agoraphobia, PTSD, insomnia, trauma bonding, 

I discovered that traditional therapy and support groups left me feeling hopeless...Yet,

I knew that I wasn't destined to live this shocked, depressed, frightened and heart-broken!
So I had to figure out how to
I did it and I can't wait to show you how.
So that you can live FREE. Grounded. Living life on your terms...
Fearlessly. Passionately. With strong boundaries and 
ZERO worries of being duped by another narcissist! 
I created an online course and coaching program that will get you these results in a fraction of the time.
Don't waste another minute of your precious life over the narcissist.
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It's Your Time!

It's time to get back to you—even Better. Healed and Whole again! YOU happy...energized and passionate about life. Full of confidence and solid plans for the future. You remembering that Living Well Is The Best Revenge!

Just So You Know!

There are partners out there who have empathy, personal integrity, loyalty, compassion, accountability, and the capacity to LOVE—deeply!

If You Want To Know More!

I'm looking forward to a call with you. But, if you are not ready, and want to know more,

then here are more details about the course!

Yourself Now

Reclaiming Yourself Now is a 12 week coaching intensive centered around active recovery from narcissistic abuse.

It is designed for targets who realize that the adage Time Heals All Wounds does not apply in such cases.

Instead focused action is required!

This course is meant to provide concrete and effective strategies and personal insight for deep healing.

Centered on the pillars of VALIDATE, NOURISH, CLEANSE, and AWAKEN this experience is what supported me in reclaiming my peace of mind, dreams and hope for the future.

Take action to Reclaim Yourself Now!

I'll be with you every step of the way.

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Complimentary Discovery Session!

Book your complimentary discovery call —where we will map out your personal recovery plan.

What to Expect

The Reclaiming Yourself Now experience is a comprehensive approach to recovery that integrates mind, body, spirit and soul! You will educate yourself on the inner workings of character disordered individuals, learn the role you play and how to protect yourself from future abuse. You will be exposed to energetic healing that will address your inner wounds, and lessen your triggers. In fact, you will have a new appreciation for triggers and see them as clues to your areas of needed growth.

During the experience you will...

  • VALIDATE your story as only people who have experienced narcissistic abuse can.
  • Have someone give witness to Your Truth. Thus, grounding you in the SANITY that you may have at times felt was slipping away.
  • NOURISH yourself. Giving yourself the love and attention that you loyally gave someone else. Someone who was unable to appreciate, or reciprocate the same.
  • CLEANSE the mental, emotional and energetic residue resulting from a toxic relationship, as well as the limiting beliefs that can leave you susceptible to future abuse.
  • AWAKEN to new possibilities that have opened, as you design your new life centered around knowing that you are loved, capable, complete, whole...enough!
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Discover new friends. Friends that are supportive and who GET IT!

Friends who won't doubt your story, but will shout affirmatively.

"Oh, My Gosh. YES!"

It's time to stop beating yourself up and taking blame that's not yours

and give yourself permission to be free!

What You Will Take Away!

By the end of the 12 weeks, you will have:

  • Validated your experience; allowing closure and a clearing for NO CONTACT~mentally, emotionally, and energetically
  • Established new habits and needed boundaries that will allow you to step into self-love, guilt-free; to put you and your needs on your To Do List!
  • Created a vision for your new toxic-free life with concrete steps to follow
  • Confirmed a tribe of supportive abuse survivors, who are also on the road to reclaiming themselves
  • Cleared the brain fog
  • Learned to identify your body clues and hear the voice of your intuition
  • Gained momentum in actively pursing your recovery. Thus, freeing you to celebrate your freedom
  • Reclaimed yourself and your power!
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More About Me...

After over 4 decades of narcissistic abuse, I am thriving and growing.

It took years to understand what was happening to me. Having been raised by a narcissist, in many ways the emotional and psychological abuse were my normal.

No matter how much I twisted myself to feed the narcissistic egos, it was never enough. I accepted the misplaced blame. I began to doubt myself living in the fear, confusion, and guilt that from the lies, projections, gaslighting, and other abuse.

But, now I know better!

It wasn't me.

It is not you!

I am enough! You are enough!

I’ve been able to reclaim my life and start living on my terms. More than that, I’ve made it my life’s mission to help other women to reclaim themselves!

I'd be honored to walk alongside you.

Let’s do this.

Life is so beautiful on this side. 

"Monica has been instrumental in helping me to gain so much clarity around narcissism and how to navigate around it. She has truly put me in a position to move beyond my circumstances into a life of positive fulfillment. I highly recommend her."

Theresa Goins

"Monica is a wealth of knowledge when it comes to the dynamics and experience of dealing with a narcissist. She has been trained in emotional intelligence and is gifted with a highly developed intuitive, healing strength set. She is gifted as a facilitator and trainer, and excellent as a one on one coach. She understands the patterns, behaviors, mindsets, and challenges that come with dealing with a narcissist. She is an excellent listener and will help validate reality, articulate the experience of what is going on, give a framework for the patterns and process, and support you in finding strength and courage in the midst of a confusing situation. I have known Monica for years and seen her in a variety of contexts, and she has an incredible heart and a desire to see you living in freedom and alignment with what you’re made for."

Talie Weir